Ahhhh I just broke up with him- yet my head is saying yes and my heart says 'Are you sure?' :(
I came out from a super long relationship, 6 years anyone?
Mind you, the 6 years involved 1 major breakup, 5 or 6 almost breakups, 1 cheating episode and loads of petty arguments.
Yes, that plainly spells out "Why are you still holding on??"
Why is it when its so obvious that the relationship is doomed, but my heart is still aching?
Did I love him? Yes, I did. I still do, considering the history of our relationship.
But when there's plainly no future (His and my religion clashes- bad), I should have just stop it right there and there.. right?
Is it so bad to think of the future than to live in the 'now'?
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I say go with you're head on this one.
IF you really wanted to get back together, you wouldn't be thinking "are you sure?" you'd be thinking "fuck! i shouldn't have done that. i totally messed up!....FUCK"
whenever i got back together with somone I broke up with, we usually just ended up ending even worse then the first time.
BUT, i'm not the type to shoot down relationships. If you think you still like the other person enough to keep going, go for it. If you're tired of it for one reason or another, just let it go.
@chiisu321 - Hey thanks for giving the first comment! I guess its because we were too comfy and lived-in like a pair of well worn shoes that it shocked me to have to being independent again, after so many years.
Yes I admit, I am weak but am trying to pull myself together.
PULL URSELF TOGETHER BIATCH! WHIP URSELF IN2 SHAPE N STOP THINKIN BOUT THE PAST! LOOK FORWARD! HUP 2, 3, 4!
hahaha...seriously its ok to cry over it n b sad...it wasnt easy i know. But u also need to knw when its time to move on n get bck on ur feet ok, soul sista!!! yea gimme the knuckle twist! (ok lame lame lame)
hahaha cheer up!!!
sHAz
@kaitlinknows - don't sweat it. I've never had a 6year relationship, but whenever I have to start again, i act like someone took away my most trusted stuffed bear (you know the ones you've had since you were a kid).
It's okay to live in the now, but since you've already thought of the future, it's kind of difficult. I always tell my friends that a relationship is doomed to fail if you can already see an end before you get there.
Just saying, if you already know it won't last, spare yourself the pain.
i know it hurts but don't worry. you'll be okay. it seems like it's the most healthy thing to do for you--and you are the one who is most important, not him. i understand it's hard right now. i think a lot of people know that horrible feeling of losing someone you love/loved. but it seems like it's best for you, especially in the longrun.
i hope you feel better. good luck & stay strong hun!!
♥LA
@tequilababe09 - Thanks love! Appreciated it. Its true, I know. Now I have to get through this on my own-- scary thought but I need to do it :)
Live in the now. That should also embody the future!